Decadent Divas: Love....by Jennifer Kacey

So much of what I see these days is all about love. Not what's great about it but what someone thinks about OTHER people's kinds of love. Their judgments. Their censure. Their snobbery or contempt. Their take on what has nothing to do with them.
Really?
In a world so full of the unknown and hate and destruction that's what people want to spend their free time doing? Breeding discontent and anger?
No. Thank. You.

So my suggestion to EVERYONE out their when it comes to love?
Hold onto it.
Don't let anyone tell you it's wrong because it's not the norm.
Embrace your rainbow or your 150 shades of grey or wallow in your vanilla and make it the most epic vanilla love story the world has ever seen.

Why?

Because life is short.
Life shouldn't be about hate and judgment and drowning others in your triggers and self-righteous beliefs. It should be about acceptance, and sharing the good in your life without fear of ridicule or the dissolution of other relationships because you don't fit into a square hole someone else thinks you should shove yourself into.

I learned a long time ago to stop caring what others thought of me. To stop caring what they thought about things that had nothing to do with them.
Thumper had it right. If you can't say nothin' nice than don't say nothin' at all.

I've surrounded myself with some of the most amazing friends and family any girl could have.
I am thankful for my life. I am thankful to be who I am. Not what anyone else thinks I should be.
I could die tomorrow or the next day or the next.
And you know what I'm going to think when I take my last breath?

That I am happy and that I lived. Not existed but lived.

So today....instead of spreading gossip....instead of spreading hate....or dislike.....or sadness.....make someone else smile. Give someone a hug that may not get another one. Give someone else a kindness you've always wanted for yourself.
A pay it forward of sorts. Of Love.

Because what will you think on your last day?
For me....what-if is not going to be it......

Love,
Jenn

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