Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Love by Jennifer Kacey

This Valentine's Day my wish for everyone is a day filled with love.
Whether that be from an amazingly sexy significant other, a sibling, a parent, a child, a furry friend, a co worker, a one night stand, or even a stranger on the street. 

Find a moment to stop and be thankful for something you love.
Good sleep.
A day with no pain.
Brownies.
A coffee cup shaped like poop. :)
A new show you found on Netflix.
Your favorite chocolate you found at the store.
A stranger whistling at your hotness.
Anything that makes you smile and reminds you to keep going and keep fighting for your own level of awesome, whatever that may be.

 Happy Happy Valentine's Day from all of us at the....


Decadently Yours,
Jennifer Kacey


http://www.jenniferkacey.com/books.html


Jennifer Kacey is a writer, mother, and business owner living with her miniman in Texas. She sings in the shower, plays piano in her dreams, and has to have a different color of nail polish every week. The best advice she’s ever been given? Find the real you and never settle for anything less.

Thursday, October 19, 2017

The Lure of a vampire


What is it about vampire’s that is so intriguing? Is it their power? Immortality? Strength? Whatever it is, vampires have drawn people in for centuries. Let’s have a look at what a vampire is and how it’s evolved into the most talked about fictional characters.
Vampires are most often dead. In past lore, vampires were created by one vampire drinking the blood of a human, killing them. The human would then be buried, assumed dead, and would rise some time later as a vampire.
 Another way a vampire is created is a vampire drinking the blood from their victim until their heartbeat slowed, then forcing the victim to drink the creators blood. The victim would then be a vampire.
Another belief is that a vampire could bite a person, but not kill them. The victim may carry on living as a human for years, but upon their death, would then become a vampire.

Where did the idea for vampires begin you might ask? Some say it began with Dracula. Vlad (the Impaler) 'Tepes' Dracula, who lived between 1430 and 1476. We’ve all heard the horror that Vlad inflicted on his victims, including impaling them, blinding, skinning, castrating, dismemberment and much more. It is said that Vlad never claimed to be immortal, which was evident when he was killed and his head presented as a trophy to the Sultan of Constantinople. So where did Dracula come from in regards to Vlad? The peasants of the time painted him in the supernatural light, bringing forth the rumor that he was of the undead, but it wasn't until Bram Stoker created his vampire Dracula that the blood sucking damned vampire was popularized.
The ancient vampires of Eastern Europe describe their vampires as half-rotted corpses crawling from their grave to which they must rest in each night. In modern lore, the image of a vampire is quite different. Gone is the shriveled, impish fiend worn by the ages as depicted as Nosferatu and in its place the vampire has become somewhat of a creature of great beauty with pale skin and fanged teeth.
Then we have Bela Lugosi who the mere mention of his name makes a person think of Dracula. Lugosi’s vampire was suave, wore a tuxedo and long black opera cape. His voice held a thick, rich Hungarian accent that was thought to be sexy. Bela Lugosi posed an image of the vampire that would be remembered and imitated even in such characters as The Count on Sesame Street or even the cereal Count Chocula.
However, there was one thing missing. Bela didn’t have fangs. Although Bram Stoker’s novel mentions peculiar sharp white teeth, it wasn't until late 1950’s when the fangs began their popularity. Today, however, fangs are the norm for vampires, as is drinking blood.

Buffy the vampire Slayer really drew people’s attention to vampires and why not. Angel was one sexy vamp, but instead of running around killing innocent victims, he chose to “Help the helpless” And what about Spike. He started out as a sniveling human, turned to a vampire and became a legendary vampire who loved to torture his victims. But it took Buffy to tame his soul and turn him into a kind-hearted vampire willing to sacrifice his life for the world.
Then we have Stephanie Meyers portrayal of vampires as “sparkling”.

So is it any wonder vampires have become revered over the centuries. They have gone from decayed, rotting grave dwellers to suave, sophisticated creatures with a conscience. And we can’t get enough of them. Each decade, it seems a new vampire is created with its own powers or flaws.
I am not immune to the lure of vampires. My Darkness series came about as a thought. What would happen if the sun was blotted out in a town with vampires? Mayhem of course, and so book one, Seducing the Darkness was created and seven books followed.  My vampires don’t all have powers, only the pure blooded original vampire’s posses the ability to transform, transport, and use mind control. The more diluted the vampire is, the fewer abilities they have. Sunlight does not make them go poof, but instead scorches their skin to produce boils, which are extremely painful. They can be killed by a stake to the heart, or decapitation. And they do not sleep in graves or in coffins.
Whatever the lure is, vampires have been around for centuries, and it doesn’t look like they’ll be going anywhere anytime soon.
Check out the Darkness Series at www.champagnebooks.com
Author website: www.shielastewartsbooks.com
Darkness Books:
Seducing the Darkness
Desiring the Darkness
Embracing the Darkness
Charming the Darkness
Tempting the Darkness
Coming soon:  Consuming the Darkness: Surviving the Darkness
Print coming soon.

 

Sunday, August 13, 2017

Love is love is love by Jennifer Kacey

I write a little bit of everything. Seriously....everything. Oh, wait, except historical because it sucks my soul out. :)
But everything else is a big YES!!

I write menage...Jenna's Consent - http://jenniferkacey.com/books/mo-series/jenna-s-consent.html

Military Romance - Elite Warriors -  http://jenniferkacey.com/books/elitewarriors/elite-metal.html

Paranormal - Violet's Shadow - http://jenniferkacey.com/books/shadowmates/violet-s-shadow.html

Lesbian - Buried Acceptance - http://jenniferkacey.com/books/hypnotic/buriedacceptance.html

BDSM - Aslan's Stranger - http://jenniferkacey.com/books/fantasiesaz/aslan-s-stranger.html

NonConsent - Mmmmm - Her Creed - http://jenniferkacey.com/books/thecage/hercreed.html

Romantic Suspense - Final Surrender - http://jenniferkacey.com/books/surrender/final-surrender2.html

Sweet Romance - No Place Like Home - http://jenniferkacey.com/books/cominghome/no-place-like-home.html

And do you know what I've learned with writing a little bit of everything? Love is love is love. That. It's truly THAT simple. Everyone wants to be loved. Everyone wants to find their happily ever after and be able to be themselves. And everyone should have that right.

So simple....."If you can't say nothing nice then don't say nothing at all." Thumper

Decadently Yours,
Jennifer Kacey




http://www.jenniferkacey.com/books.html



Jennifer Kacey is a writer, mother, and business owner living with her miniman in Texas. She sings in the shower, plays piano in her dreams, and has to have a different color of nail polish every week. The best advice she’s ever been given? Find the real you and never settle for anything less.

Monday, November 16, 2015

Chasing Firsts

A couple weeks ago my oldest child looked at me and asked, "Do you and dad have any firsts left?" We, my husband and I, were getting ready to celebrate our eighteenth anniversary and I guess my kiddo, who is only a teenager, thought it was a fitting question. I laughed and answered, "Of course we do. There are always firsts in life no matter how old you are or how long you've been married."

For our anniversary we went to see a live comedy show. As it turns out, this was the first ever live comedy show my husband and I had ever been to together. Actually, it was the first ever live comedy show I've ever seen. It wasn't planned. I wasn't searching for a first. It just happened. My husband asked what I wanted to do and I said, "You know what would be fun..." That's how most of our dates get decided. One or the other of us says, "You know what would be fun..." So off we went. And it was fun. I can't wait to go see another one.

It wasn't until we were actually seated and my husband made a comment about us never seeing a live comedy show that it hit me we were experiencing a first. The next week, as I was driving my kiddo to school, I passed along the tidbit to him. Since he had asked, and I'd given a vague answer, I thought he might like a more concrete one. "But I bet you guys have less firsts than you did when you first started dating," he said.

I nodded and said, "Of course. But you know, there is something to be said for the three-hundred-twenty-fourths in life as well."

"What?"

"The first kiss is nice and you'll probably always remember it. I know I'll never forget the first time your father kissed me."

He groaned because he's heard that particular story once, or twice, or possibly a million times in his lifetime.

"But it's just the first," I said. "And, to be honest, firsts are kind of easy. The relationship is young, exciting, mysterious. You're both on your best behavior and trying to impress each other. And you only have to do it once."

But to kiss the same girl three-hundred-twenty-four times and keep it good? Now that takes talent. To kiss the same girl three thousand times and still make her knees weak? That's something worth bragging about.

And I realized, we live in a society that chases firsts: First kisses, first loves, first dates. We place an inordinate amount of value on a fleeting moment, a snap shot of time. A person can't judge a relationship on its firsts. So I told my son, as I drove him to school, "It's easy to take an established relationship for granted. I've been married to your father for most of my adult life. I honestly can't imagine reaching out to him one day and him not being there to hold my hand. He doesn't have to take me to fancy restaurants to get me to kiss him. I would kiss him no matter what. And he doesn't have to bring me chocolates to get me to tell him I love him. I tell him I love him morning, noon, and night. But he still takes me to fancy restaurants and he still brings me chocolate. He does those things because he wants to make me happy. And that means more to me than any first."




Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Can't See the Forest For the Trees by Jennifer Kacey

You know that adage, you can't see the forest for the trees?
It's one of my favorites to keep everything in perspective.
Being so lost in the details of life that "life" gets lost along the way.

In my bathroom, above the pretty bathtub I hung a painting that reminds me of this every day. Multiple times a day. Red trees that form a beautiful canopy of MY forest.


I have so many irons in the fire I've lost count. Between being a mom, owning two businesses that are SUPER busy, writing how many books at one time, traveling, and trying to stay well (hardee har har) there are literally not enough hours in my day to get everything done. There just aren't. I've requested more but haven't heard back from Father Time yet. :)
But every morning before I plow into my day to kick it in the ass and every night when I'm ready to stare at a blank wall and I'm thinking about all of the things I did or didn't get done - I see my forest.

So everybody stop and take a breath. Back up for a second and take a look at "all" of you. All that you're handling, all that you're accomplishing, ALL of the people you're loving and supporting and helping be....better. Family, friends, employees, lovers, children, strangers. Everyone.

That's who you are. That's your life. Not the burnt toast or the couple minutes you were late to an appt or the blog post you didn't get up on time. That's just trees.
Focus on your forest and make that your goal and it's amazing how far you will go!

Love being a part of all of your forests, and adore you being a part of mine.

Decadently Yours,
Jennifer Kacey :)

The books in the Members Only Series can be found here...

Stand Alone


Jennifer Kacey is a writer, mother, and business owner living with her family in Texas. She sings in the shower, plays piano in her dreams, and has to have a different color of nail polish every week. The best advice she’s ever been given? Find the real you and never settle for anything less.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Love....by Jennifer Kacey

So much of what I see these days is all about love. Not what's great about it but what someone thinks about OTHER people's kinds of love. Their judgments. Their censure. Their snobbery or contempt. Their take on what has nothing to do with them.
Really?
In a world so full of the unknown and hate and destruction that's what people want to spend their free time doing? Breeding discontent and anger?
No. Thank. You.

So my suggestion to EVERYONE out their when it comes to love?
Hold onto it.
Don't let anyone tell you it's wrong because it's not the norm.
Embrace your rainbow or your 150 shades of grey or wallow in your vanilla and make it the most epic vanilla love story the world has ever seen.

Why?

Because life is short.
Life shouldn't be about hate and judgment and drowning others in your triggers and self-righteous beliefs. It should be about acceptance, and sharing the good in your life without fear of ridicule or the dissolution of other relationships because you don't fit into a square hole someone else thinks you should shove yourself into.

I learned a long time ago to stop caring what others thought of me. To stop caring what they thought about things that had nothing to do with them.
Thumper had it right. If you can't say nothin' nice than don't say nothin' at all.

I've surrounded myself with some of the most amazing friends and family any girl could have.
I am thankful for my life. I am thankful to be who I am. Not what anyone else thinks I should be.
I could die tomorrow or the next day or the next.
And you know what I'm going to think when I take my last breath?

That I am happy and that I lived. Not existed but lived.

So today....instead of spreading gossip....instead of spreading hate....or dislike.....or sadness.....make someone else smile. Give someone a hug that may not get another one. Give someone else a kindness you've always wanted for yourself.
A pay it forward of sorts. Of Love.

Because what will you think on your last day?
For me....what-if is not going to be it......

Love,
Jenn


Need something to wet your whistle and get your love fix for the day??
May I suggest a delicious bite out of the Members Only series........ :P


The books in the Members Only Series can be found here...


Stand Alone



Jennifer Kacey is a writer, mother, and business owner living with her family in Texas. She sings in the shower, plays piano in her dreams, and has to have a different color of nail polish every week. The best advice she’s ever been given? Find the real you and never settle for anything less.

Website - http://www.jenniferkacey.com/
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Facebook Author Page - https://www.facebook.com/jenniferkaceyauthor
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Thursday, May 1, 2014

Love, Acceptance and Ice Cream...

Love - it sure can come in many ways, can't it?!?
That little warm tingle you get when watching a sappy movie. Or the sigh that slips out when you're out and about in the middle of Rockefeller Center in NYC and you see a man drop to one knee on the ice rink and propose to his girl on Christmas Eve.
And when you go to a friends house to see their new puppies and melt when the runt of the litter licks your nose and then nibbles on you.
When you hold your child for the first time, and every time after that.
Or when your spouse of fourteen years looks across a crowded room and you know all they see...is you.
Love is amazing and makes the world a brighter, happier, more delightful place to be. I approve of love in all it's various forms and give them all a two thumbs up.



Acceptance - YOWZA! This one can be a mine field.
People can think they're giving it, but they really aren't when they deface someone behind their back. Gossip is human nature but that doesn't make it right. People can withhold it because they don't agree with whatever "it" is, but to me, that's not being a loving person. That's being selfish and judgmental.
But you know what? Being accepting and nice - IT"S FREE!!!!!!
It doesn't cost anyone even a penny to give it, and it can literally change someone's life. What an amazing gift to give someone.
I'm in the business of words. And not just what they are, but the order they're put in.
I wish more people would think before they speak and live by the eternal words of Thumper in the Disney movie Bambi. "If you can't say nothin' nice, then don't say nothin' at all."
Oh.
So.
True.


Now as for ice cream...hello...it's ice cream. It's wonderful and makes the world DELICIOUS and it's a tiny thing to indulge in that ALWAYS makes me smile. :) :) :)

What more could I ask of life?
Oh, uh...and kink. Yeah, I need that too. :) I LOVE THIS PICTURE BELOW! So freakin funny I had to share!


Decadently Yours,

Diva Jennifer

And if you need a bit of kink in your life, I've got you covered!!!
The books in the Members Only Series can be found here...



Jennifer Kacey is a wife, mother, and business owner living with her family in Texas. She sings in the shower, plays piano in her dreams, and has to have a different color of nail polish every week. The best advice she’s ever been given? Find the real you and never settle for anything less.

Website - http://www.jenniferkacey.com/
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.kacey.7
Twitter - https://twitter.com/JenniferKacey
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