Wednesday, March 16, 2016
Yes, I'm all for a blue collar man who has grease under his nails but, for me, there is nothing sexier than a man in a tailored suit. I'm sure it has everything to do with those social notions of power and prestige and the feminist in me isn't thrilled at the idea, but I just can't help it. A man in a suit does things to me.
4: Sense of Humor-
I love a man who laughs. Even better, a man who can laugh at himself. I take life way too seriously. I know, it's short and nobody gets out of here alive so I shouldn't. But I do. I appreciate people who are able to find the joy in the chaos. Not only that, but it also helps me to relax.
Sappy, I know, but it's true. I think it says a lot about a person's character and strength when they are kind to others. Compassion is a choice. It's probably what makes me a little weak in the knees when it comes to firefighter or police romance novels. Big strong men who choose to save kittens from trees are hot.
I'm kind of a pain in the ass in real life. I like to argue. Over everything. I know, I can be a challenge. But I appreciate a guy who can keep up with me. Not shouting insults and hurling threats, but with a well thought out logical counter argument. It's hot when a guy knows not only where he stands but why.
To a principle, to a job, to a conviction, to me. I think loyalty is sexy. I think that's why bad boy romances are so hot. Bad boys, in romances at least, are loyal. They'll move heaven and earth for their convictions and their loves. That kind of devotion can be hard to find in today's world.
So that's my top five. What are yours? What do you find sexy?